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The Art of Spousing with Ben and Elisa Haake
IN THIS EPISODE:
“The Enneagram’s effect on marriage.” is not about: 1. The Enneagram is a perfect tool for predicting compatibility in marriage. 2. The Enneagram can help identify and correct relationship problems. 3. The Enneagram can help couples resolve conflicts and improve communication. Do you know your Enneagram type? It just might be the key to a happy marriage.
“I felt understood for the first time and found out that castling is okay because it’s how I restore and how I even when we first got married, I had to look at her and say, I need you to hear that I love you dearly, but I need to be away
Ben and Elisa Haake are a married couple who have been together for 12 years. They have two children and live in Florida. Ben is a worship pastor at Christ Fellowship Church and Elisa is a vocal coach and worship leader. They are both super hosts with Airbnb.
This is Ben and Elisa Haake’s story…
Ben and Elisa Haake have been married for twelve years and have two kids. They met when Ben asked Elisa out on a double date. Eight years into their marriage, they realized that they never fought. After taking the enneagram test, they learned the reason why. The enneagram has given them language to understand their marriage dynamic and has helped them to grow in self-awareness, spouse awareness, and couple awareness.
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How the enneagram can help you understand your relationship dynamic 2. How to use the enneagram to grow in self-awareness, spouse-awareness, and couple-awareness 3. How the enneagram can help you understand your shadow side.
Resources:
Justin IG: @benhaake
Andrea IG: @elisahaake
Other episodes you’ll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram
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About James & Lisa
James and Lisa Duvall share truths and lessons learned from their 29 years of marriage and over a decade of teaching, coaching, and speaking on marriage.
