Marriage Coaching
We often get asked, counseling vs. coaching—what’s the difference? While both methods can help your marriage, coaching is typically descriptive and helps couples move from where they are to where they want to be, from mundane to masterpiece. Whereas counseling is typically prescriptive and is best for couples who need more specialized help to address past hurts, mental health issues, or other patterns of behavior that are beyond coaching.
Just like sports coaches help their players get stronger and identify areas to improve in their sport, as your marriage coaches, we’ll help you grow stronger and identify areas to improve in the art of spousing.


Coaching packages

Marriage Reboot
The Marriage Reboot Retreat is a private, two-day intensive experience for you and your spouse to work exclusively with James & Lisa to identify where you have been, define where you are currently, and discover where you want to go together. This Reboot Retreat is designed for a wide variety of marriages—whether you are in crisis on the brink of divorce, a struggling marriage that needs a unified vision, a complacent marriage that needs a boost, a good marriage that wants to become great, or anywhere in between!
During the two days, you will discover how to move your marriage from mundane to masterpiece. And with actionable goals and clear vision, you and your spouse will live by design and not by default!
What you get…
- 2 Days of focused coaching with James and Lisa
- 3 Months of follow up coaching on action plan
- 1 year membership with Married for a Purpose

Amplify Your Marriage
You may think you know your spouse really well, but the Enneagram allows couples to see each other through fresh eyes—giving new insights into your relationship to connect and love more deeply. You’ll have the tools to improve your relationship, increase your awareness, and live with intentionality as you practise the art of spousing.
This unique live coaching program is designed to strengthen and deepen your marital bond.
What you get…
- 2 iEQ9 Integrative Enneagram Assessments and Reports, the most scientifically accurate and technically robust personality typing tool on the market.
- 1 Day In Person Intensive with James and Lisa.
- 3 Live Video Coaching Sessions offering coaching call with Lisa and James.
- One Year Membership in The Collective for continued discussion and discovery